Help im only 15 years old and my boyfriend is 18 nearly 19
ryt 1st he knicked petrol from a garage and he smashed in 2 a pub gate and broke the lock! i no it was stupid but he was showin off wen we met he was on a drivin ban and i didnt no that till last friday went he met me he brought an old car and kept drivin 2 see me! and he has no insurnance... anway he got arrsted about 3 weeks ago... he got put on bail hes now off bail and hes got a court case tommrow is it most likely he will go to prison im stressted out as it is with my exams and i cant go to the court case because of an science exam! i need advice please help!! all i seem 2 do 2nyt is cryy!!
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sounds like this guy is trouble. but you have to look out for #1 which is YOU. what he did was his own fault and he is not a responsible person. this relationship is doomed so move on. you are young so just focus on your education and try not to let this situation affect your studies. this is your life! you sound like your from england so cheerio!
well you need to move on with your life and decide if your gonna stick too idiots like this o
He will have to pay his price like anyone else. Showing support is all you really can do.
Sorry sweetie... I know you are sad but he doesn't sound like the right guy for you. I would concentrate on your exams and let him sit in jail and think about what he has done.
you're only 15, worry about your exams. you shouldn't be worried about court at all when you're this age especially if you aren't the one on trial.
Your boyfriend is a CHILD molester. Dump him ASAP ! You are TOO YOUNG for this LOSER !
He has disobeyed the law so he should suffer the consequence do not get yourself involved with people like that you only end up bringing you down with them.
i'd throw the book at him if i was the judge, but every case is different.
only thing i have to say, is get your self into school and get an education. You cant spell, type, or create a proper sentence. Dump the loser, cause thats all he is, and go make a life for yourself! Your 15 and your english and grammar are that of a 9 year old!
you are 15 years old...do you really want to waste your life waiting on him to get out of prison??.....get your mind off him, hang out with girlfriends, study, anything to get your mind on what you need to be doing....enjoying your youth!
Get rid of your disgusting loser of a boyfriend and start concentrating on your education!!!!! Your 15 and you can't even spell.
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Yes but probably less than a year. Find someone better it should not be hard.
That suxs, you should of paid bail. but chill and do your science stuff...if there is nothing you can do then just try to get over him (for now once he gets out thenyour good)
Sorry to break it to you, but this guy is a loser. You and he are better off with him in jail, because he's just going to get you into trouble. Let him do his time and find someone else.
first, you need to fix your grammar to make this easier to read
second, move on as that first guy said, hes obviously not going down the right road
even if you love him, sometimes its better to love someone from a dsitance
just dont do anything stupid with him that will make you join him in jail
take your test tomorr and don't worry about anything else. Education is the answer to everything. it will help to meet other people who don't get in jail... Good luck in the future!
so he got busted for having no insurance? lol, no he won't go to jail!, at most he could do ten days in county jail.
But Probaly, he will get the option of doing comm. service, and might have to pay a small fine.
But, if he does go to jail, his first day will be the worst. tell him when he goes in DO NOT stare at any one, but glance at everybody to let them know he's not afraid. He can't show weakness in there, but he's gotta keep a low profile, and be respectful, otherwise he could get jumped (he won't have to worry about "dropping the soap", cuz people are only in there to do small ammounts of time)
After a couple of days of being in there, time will go by smooth for him with no worries.
It depends if he has got previous convicitons as to whether he goes to prison or not - his solicitor will have given him a good idea about what will happen at court. His behaviour is putting you at risk as well if you were in the car. If you are in the UK and he goes to prison the local Youth Offending Team will be able to explain to you what happens next. There are charities and support services to help you, the Howard League for Penal Reform offer advice and support to prisoners families (google them). If he is sent to prison he will be taken straight from court to prison and you will not be allowed to see him before he is taken away, he could be taken to any prison in the country depending which one has room.. Prisoners can write letters and make phone calls. He will be able to send you a visiting order so that you can go and visit him, visits vary from prison to prison but in some might only be once a month. Look at the Home Offie website to find details of the different prisons.
Chances are he will not be sent to prison ( the prisons are so full the courts are under pressure not to send anyone else if possible) hopefully he will learn his lesson from this and stop behaving like an idiot.
Come on now and forget getting involved with court, This is his problem, just go about doing your school work that's all the stress you need. You should not be crying prisons are made for outlaws.
The guy sounds nuts to me. Showing off for a girl is good, but stealing, and vandalism are not showing off. Driving with no insurance on a banned license shows he's irresponsible. How's he supposed to take care of you or to treat you (take you out, pay for meals, etc) if he can't afford auto insurance.
I'm not going to tell you he's too old for you. I'm sure someone else will say that.
Besides, you don't need help about going to jail. He does. You just need to find a new guy.
first of all, my heart goes out to you and i am sincerely sorry for your heartache.
secondly, he probably has not made a couple of good decisions and perhaps if he has already done this much, then he might go to prison. it reads terrible, i know, but miracles happen everyday and perhaps if he does go to prison, which I'm sure no one wants, he might come out and try to be a better person because the things that he has done are not the best things a citizen could do; but also not the worst.
good luck on your exam tomorrow and i will remember you and him in my thoughts and prayers.
im so0o0o0o0o sorry again!
good luck in the future because i know you have a lot to deal with- I've been there and i promise you, it will get easier. i don't know what you are feeling because I'm not you but i would like to think that we have all experienced something like what you are going through and i hope you everything turns out for the best because you seem like a sincere, genuine person.
good luck to you ma'am :)
He needs to show more responsibility at that age. I would just leave him and let him do his time ( don't contact him when he's doing his time in jail, this should make him rethink about showing off) In the mean time finish your school and find other types of guys to date, this guy should be acting more mature and responsible as an adult, he's got some growing up to do yet. It wouldn't be wise to get involved with someone who is starting off in the wrong direction, that's only going to make your life unhappy and miserable, is this what you want??
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