Saturday, October 31, 2009

I need to help for a friend that is giving up on life cause child support?

I have a friend that is not making it at all . He lost his high paying job for fed ex he pays $1900 in child support and it keeps building he was expecting $949 dollars back pay to get caught up on his rent and utlitys for unemployment which child support took it all ..fro his rent and utlitys he works another job and only makes $99 every two weeks his rent alone $400 dollars I had to put him in the hospital cause he was sucidal he has nothing cant afford lawyer is there any one that can help on what to do ? legal or illgally because governer screwing him! they expect him to live on $198 a month ..Another friend of mine just hung him self because of child support whats a person to do ?
Answers:
He doesn't need a lawyer to have his case re-evaluated by child support. Have him call the child support office and find out what he needs to do. Or look it up online for your particular state. Child support can be modified when the parents circumstances change.
They are not supposed to take more money than you own. Someone in my family had to pay, and the child support was adjusted so that the person could still live. Child support wouldn't help the child if the one paying dies. I don't know for sure about other states, I only know about N.Y.
He needs to find a job. The government doesn't have the money to pay for him to stay home all day. He still needs to support himself. When he's reasonable stable, have him find a good job that he will like.
Well.first I would say that his circumstances have changed and he should request a new court date to present the facts to the judge so that he can get the child support lowered.

As to what he should do? and I don't say this lightly...don't have kids if you aren't in a position to support them.
he shld of kept it in his pants...problem solved.
If he is no longer able to pay his child support because he doesn't make enough, contact the lawyer/judge that decided on the child support amount he pays now. See if you can get it reduced since his circumstances have changed.
Give up all of his rights - then he won't owe child support!
The government is NOT screwing him! He's the one who decided to make all of the bad moves to avoid paying child support!!!!!! I most certainly would NOT feel sorry for him!

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